dianegclark

I needed an amazing day. Our appliances have all decided to stop working so we are hand washing dishes, using a different microwave and have put all of our food in coolers. On top of that, ants have invaded our kitchen. First world problems.

When I got the invite to go horseback riding I dove on it. Karen Carr at Broken Wing Ranch Ministries takes three of the Homestead girls on a lovely trail ride each Saturday in the spring, summer and fall. When there are slots open, volunteers get to ride.

The drive out is beautiful. I drove and when I do, the tradition is, to listen to Midwest Meets Manhattan on the way out and back. It gets us in the mood.

I got to ride a different horse! Poor old Bullseye has a bum knee. The old guy and I didn’t ever really hit it off. He turned his head away when he saw me coming every time and he liked to be naughty to keep me anxious. Plus, he had a tendency to stumble, especially on declines.

Yesterday I got to ride Lucky. He let me rub his nose and sweet talk him before I got up there. He liked walking fast but only tried trotting when I didn’t ask him to, once. He liked being in the lead which I embraced and enjoyed very much, the wide open trail out in front of me. My muscles didn’t get as sore as I felt compfortable enough to stretch them a bit in the saddle.

We rode for about an hour and a half then brushed down our horses. Lucky really liked that and let me rub and kiss his nose and love on him.

After a quick run to the grocery and a nap and some food prep, Wilson and I went out to Mutt school to officially start 1st grade. I was so flipping proud of him! He was a rock star!

There were four other dogs and there owners there and Dawn, Wilson’s private trainer, taught the class. Wilson sat before going into each door on the way in and then sat down next to me on command. We worked on getting comfortable with others approaching, then brushing, then letting others brush the dogs. Wilson did great. Then we traded dogs to work on separation anxiety. Wilson only barked and pulled when I got all the way back around but when corrected, he waited patiently. We worked on “move out of the way” which he did really really well at, then we walked around with the dogs on the leash within a few feet of the other dogs to work on distractions. Wilson did great at that too! The last thing we worked on was “place”. Wilson had to be coaxed to get onto the mat but he obviously has worked on that in day training and knew what to do. Dawn said that Wilson knows a lot of skills that he will get to show me during 1st grade. I was super pleased and impressed. That and the fabulous report that he is right on track to being a therapy dog and is demonstrating the right temperament is such a relief.

The day didn’t end there! Scott and I and Dave and Mel were invited over to our friends’ Kathy and Fred’s house for a birthday dinner for Scott. They have a lovely home and back yard and the temperature was just right. We drank cocktails and ate amazing smoked pork and sausage medallions, toured their house and sat out on the patio in the perfect breeze. We topped that off with yummy fancy cake.

What a wonderful day. It’s been over a year since Leah and her family were here at our house.

They all got here around noon. Joel too. Henry barely remembered our house. Eleanor has never been here. We had Wilson stay with a friend today as the dogs make the boys nervous.

We played here, legos, magnet building blocks, train tracks. We ate lunch then loaded the kids up in the wagon and Eleanor in the umbrella stroller and walked down to show them the practice and cofffee shop. So hard to believe they hadn’t been there! Joel had since he stayed with us during quarantine.

We then walked to the park and the kids flew a kite that Scott bought. They loved it! Emmet ran all over the park yelling while Henry kept saying, “I can’t catch it,” and wore my sunglasses. I laid in the grass with Eleanor.

Eleanor is almost 8 months and is in the stage of “stranger danger”. She gave me lots of smiles but also cried worriedly when Leah wasn’t close. I did get some quality time with her.

All of the kids did great considering they haven’t been very many places in the last year. Henry forgot to use the potty so we had to make a target run to get him some more underwear after a couple of accidents.

We had two meals, lunch, then barbecued brats and ate outside. It was such a beautiful day. The boys loved trying to play ping pong. I laughed so hard. Henry whacked the ball hard and Emmet whiffed it a bunch. Emmet did a great job with corn hole and Henry throws a mean frisbee. They also made Joel have a tea party with tiny dishes.

I adore my family and I loved having them today.

My heart is full. What a wonderful day from start to finish. Yesterday we celebrated Henry’s 3rd birthday at Leah’s house with Teri and Greg, Joel , and us. Mom came along and did great!

Mom met Eleanor for the first time. Leaving the house is a big deal for her and a long day like this is hard but she was a trooper! She painted the cutest yellow airplane for Henry that both Leah and Henry loved. It was so special having her along.

Henry and Emmet loved all the gifts. Their reactions opening them were absolutely adorable. Henry kept saying, “For me? A present for me? Another one?” Emmet said, “I’ve always wanted this.” While riding his new balance bike around he said, “Grandma, it is amazing that you got us these!”

The party was a perfect size. I feel like I got quality time with each grandkid and kid (maybe not so much Leah cause she was busy busy), Mom, and Teri and Greg whom we don’t get to see that often. Crystal and Aaron (Gaedderts) also stopped by and we got time to chat. Because it was beautiful out, we were out front, inside, and out back.

Eleanor’s little personality is starting to come alive. I loved watching her watch everything going on around her. She watches and is delighted with Emmet mostly. In all the chaos out back, she heard birds and tracked them flying by in the air above the house. She is such an easy baby, only fussing once when she wasn’t expecting me to pick her up after her nap and again when she got overwhelmed. Other than that, she was perfectly happy to be held or to sit on the floor. While we ate dinner out back, she laid and entertained herself on the cardboard box that the sandbox came in.

Henry and Emmet loved every gift, from the little dinosaurs and Uno cards in their Easter basket, the little tractors and trucks from Aaron, the walk-in talkie’s Joel got them, the bikes and the amazing sand box the Gaedderts got them which was built and played in on the spot.

The 4 layer yellow cake was impressive and delicious, the decorations on point as usual and the scaled down birthday version worked well. These kids are so very loved.

Henry was happy to share his day and not be the sole star of the day. He handed his gifts to Emmet to help him unwrap. He still amazes me that he is just turning three as he’s been talking for so long. He said, “It’s just a little wobbly” while trying to figure out his new balance bike. I love when he puts his little arms in the air to declare things, usually starting with, “Hey guys!”

Emmet was exhausted and overwhelmed and had a couple of meltdowns. At dinner, he cried and then pulled himself together and said through his wet eyelashes, “I’m sorry I cried, guys.” Of course we assured him it’s always ok to cry. Broke my Grandma heart but he is growing up.

When we got ready to say goodbye, Emmet and I talked about how sad he and I both get when we have to leave. He said, “It’s ok, I have my walkie talkies to make me happy and I will dream of you guys tonight.” It helped me too! And I did dream of him!

Oh Wilson. Wilson is so loving. A bull in a china closet. A giant, fluffy puppy.

Today while talking on the phone, Wilson presented me with the bedroom curtains that he had torn from the window and dragged to me, rod and all. Yesterday, Wilson went upstairs to the upstairs bathroom and I heard slurping, obviously from the toilet. He brought me the entire roll of toilet paper.

Wilson weighs 47 pounds at last weigh in and he is officially bigger than Diego. He is 20 weeks old last Friday.

Wilson is perfect at the coffee shop. He greets everyone at every table without jumping. They love him. Not so much at the practice. I had him there for one 45 minute session. He ate two giant leaves off my plant and shredded an entire box of Kleenex and spread it all over the floor. He won’t be going back for awhile.

Wilson will sit and lay down on command and can string sit, lay and stand together. He will stay for about 30 seconds when I move about 6 feet away. He is getting better about heeling when walking but he learches at people and barks at dogs. He tries to put his paws on the counter but will sit when we tell him to. He will “drop it” when I tell him to. He comes when called from far in the house or outside but we have to work on this to remind him often.

Wilson has been knocking over his water dish regularly. Today we got a dish that is supposed to keep his beard from getting wet. First he drank from it and kissed me all over my face with a very wet beard and then he knocked over the dish. Twice. Dish fail.

When Wilson decides he wants to be loving, he overwhelms us with his love. He comes running, his hair blowing back as he gallumps into the room at top speed, his entire back side waving with his tail, and he throws himself at us. He rubs his head on us, then starts kissing, covering my entire face with slobber and then kisses and nibbles my ears lobes. He still jumps up on laps without a lot of warning and flops down at my feet.

Wilson now has his own TikTok channel. We are sharing his adorable ness with the world.

Woke up at the usual time. So grateful that Scott gets up with Wilson now so I can sleep a bit longer. Wandered out to get my already prepared coffee (yay!) and added So Delicious Vanilla Coconut Creamer and grabbed a couple of protein balls made with Kajava and went to my quiet time spot in the livingroom. It won’t be long now til I can do my morning quiet time outside.

Started with gratitude as always, then my habit tracker, then journaled a little and read a bit of my current devotional, The Infinite Way. Wilson was goofy as always and was distracting, this morning slurping out of the toilet upstairs and wanting in and out to play with Diego.

Got dressed and headed out as it turns out too early for my hair appointment. Stopped by Brothers to get my stylist a coffee and get a hug from Dave, discovered I was too early for my haircut so switched the order of my day and went for a tan. Chatted with my friend Melinda at Sun Tan City about the medical emergency at the gym last night then napped through my tan time. So relaxing.

Stopped by Walgreens and found the hair color that’s been sold out everywhere and bought 4 boxes! Yahoo! Had to call Mom to tell her.

Back down for my haircut with my long time friend Virginia at J’s Salon in Aggieville and also chatted with Belinda and J for a bit. Feels so good to get my hairs trimmed up.

Got done with that early and the sun was peeking out for the first time in days so popped by home to sit on the deck and eat leftover pizza. Got focussed on my phone and didn’t realize Wilson had snuck the second piece off the middle of the table, the stinker.

Back in the car and jaunted down to Queens Nails and did a new thing, blue and yellow nails. Then returned home for a nap. Self care can be exhausting don’t ya know.

Now I’m writing, will finish some notes for work then go work out at 9 rounds and bathe before date night. We have exciting plans—I think we will go to the grocery store and maybe if we are feeling super adventurous we will go to the coffee shop and play cards or read for the evening before coming home to watch Netflix.

Its a mellow day but one I’m grateful for because it isn’t the push and grind of full time work. Looking forward to a visit and weekend with my peeps tomorrow.

I love it when the kids visit. Hannah has been here all week. We’ve enjoyed meals and walks and day trips to see family, Leah, Joel, Larry and Jo. Hannah and I did our quiet time together almost every morning. We went to the gym together, to get smoothies, showed her the coffee shop and the practice. She brought Oscar and the pups really enjoyed playing with each other almost constantly. Double doodles.

Many good things are happening.

Wilson is getting easier and his training is going well. He knows how to behave and can do many obedience tricks, mostly only if we have treats in hand, but whatever. We don’t have to feel like we have to watch him every single second. He can entertain himself and he rests often indoors. He is so sweet and affectionate but requires less than constant attention now.

Hannah is visiting this week. We are loving time with she and Oscar. She is low key so we eat meals together and watch movies and talk. Oscar and Wilson play. We are taking short trips to see Joel and then Leah.

I saw my Dad on Friday after more than a year. Even though our relationship isn’t perfect, it was good to see him.

I spent the day with my great friend Heather on Friday. We rode to KC together for an appointment for her, I saw my Dad then we ate at a fun Asian grill called Bibibop. It was delicious.

Our new gym is open. It is giant and luxurious and all that was promised. It is much more enjoyable to work out there.

The practice is going well. I am a bit overwhelmed by the needs and I am seeing more clients than I intended to. The new therapist from New Mexico isn’t coming after all as her husband is now not coming to Ft. Riley, but the other leads I have will hopefully pan out. I love my office and enjoy helping people even though it can be quite heavy at times. Shari has been coming up monthly and is getting more business. Dave has clients and his life coaching is growing.

I am back on track with seeing the grandkids more often. I love them so much and it is so special to go see them.

The coffee shop is doing well. We are selling Leah’s paintings there and there are lots of fun events coming up. Our baristas are great and the drama has gone away. We gave them all job titles and they love it.

Mom continues to do well. Dad is stabilized.

Today was a perfect day with the grandkids, just what I needed. Got there early. Henry and Emmet helped me carry a picture we bought from Leah out to the car and looked for Papa. “Where’s Papa?”

The boys wanted to know what I brought (I try to bring them something every time I go) and I got out the dog puzzle that I had purchased for Wilson. The boys very excitedly filled all the little puzzle pieces with dog treats and then screamed with delight when we put it on the floor. Wilson figured out how to open them and slide them to get them out of the way to eat the treats and Moose jumped in. Emmet just sat quietly and watched and then said, “I wish I was a dog”.

Leah loaded up the stroller with the boys and Eleanor and we headed out down a beautiful walkway nearby that winds around the museum and then through a retirement residential community. At one point Emmet came up and took one hand and Henry took the other and we walked along their sweet little hands in mine. I had Wilson tied around my waist. They wore their little orange and yellow chucks that I bought them for Christmas. It was so cute to hear their little feet hitting the sidewalk as they walked.

When we got back to the house we buckled in and went to taco Tico. The boys like showing me their town. Emmet said, “ this is our taco Tico.” When we were at the house Henry said “this is our kitchen and this is where we cook” as if I’ve never been there.

After lunch Leah wanted to get some things done and the boys and I and Eleanor went outside the boys were tromping around and throwing leaves. I was tromping around with them with Eleanor in my arms and she started screaming and I realize she was scream laughing and she continued for quite some time. Eleanor went in for a nap and Henry and Emmett dug under the table while Wilson and Moose ran around the yard and chased a tennis ball that I was throwing. At one point I reach down and touched Henry’s sweet face and he said “I love you grandma.” I feel like this visit Henry and I got some really quality time and he was enamored with the things that we played together. We played a long time in the front yard me swinging them on their big net swing and then I laid down under the swing and they screamed as they went over the top of me just clearing me by inches. And then I started tickling them and they loved it. Then we play people pile in the front yard with in the dirt and grass and sticks I got my face bonked and my lip bonked and we wrestled and rolled around and laughed and laughed. It was just such a precious time.

I spent the day in Newton today. Time with the grand babies is so healing.

I arrived around 11:15. I put Wilson in the back year with Moose then went in to greet the babies. They helped me carry the picture I purchased from Leah to the car. Henry looked in the front and the back seats and asked, “Where is Papa?” We spent the next 15 minutes convincing the boys that though I brought the paper airplane motor parts, I don’t know how to do it with them and they’d have to wait for their dad to come home. I asked Emmet, “Aren’t you glad I came?” Emmet didn’t hesitate, “No.” We laughed hard.

Next the boys played with the dog puzzle I brought after we’d let Wilson in the house. Henry was very into it. They carefully loaded the treats in all the compartments and we put it on the floor. They were amazed at Wilson’s skills in working the puzzle to get the treats. Henry kept screaming, “He’s doing it, he’s doing it!” Then Emmet said quietly, “I wish I was a dog.”

It was beautiful out today, mild temps and partly cloudy, so we loaded the boys and Eleanor in the stroller and headed out to the woods trail by the museum. I put Wilson’s leash around my waist and it worked pretty well. The boys didn’t stay in the stroller long, running along the sidewalk, climbing and exploring in the orange and yellow high top chucks I bought them. At one point Emmet put his little hand in mine. So of course Henry had to grab hold of the other one. My heart was singing holding their little hands.

We loaded up everyone in their car seats and drove the short distance to Taco Tico for our lunch. Emmet said, “This is our Taco Tico” like he was the tour guide. Earlier Henry had said, “This is our kitchen and that’s where we cook,” pointing to the stove. Like I hadn’t been there.

The afternoon was spent playing in the back yard with all three kids and both dogs. At one point, the boys were playing in the leaves. I took Eleanor over and she started screaming. I realized she was scream singing. Screaming and chuckling loudly. It was adorable.

The boys played in the dirt under the table, Henry with his toy excavator and Emmet with a shovel. Henry was very interactive with me which can be unusual for him. I reached down and touched his sweet cheek and he said, “I love you, Grandma.” He is not a very demonstrative kid so it meant a lot.

We switched to the front yard where I pushed the boys in their big net swing. I laid on the ground and screamed as the swing passed over me, missing me by inches and then started tickling them. There was much laughter. We then played people pile in the dirt and leaves in the front. Wilson took a nap in the sun on the patio.

I love my babies and my heart is full having spent the day with them.

Ps Wilson did great in the car AND I brought home all of the remaining prints and original paintings of Leah’s to sell in the coffee shop. I’m so excited!

I had a great weekend. Friday the weather was amazing. I had a play date set up for Wilson with our golden retriever friend Obi and his mama Olivia. We let the dogs play like crazy and then ran over and got our buddy Natalie. We got take out from Gordon’s Mexican in aggieville and ate it on the back patio. We laughed so hard.

Immediately after, I met Andrea at Homestead and we drove over to Deb’s and jumped in with her. We laughed all the way to Topeka, ate at Red Lobster, then went over to see our Sandy. Sandy was the first house manager at Homestead. I’ve wanted to see her for ever so long. She didn’t know I was coming so the surprise was very fun. We sat in Sandy’s apartment and laughed hard. Sandy gave us each a cross necklace.

Saturday was for shopping and getting things done around the house, napping, and getting my nails done. I took Mama and she treated. Bonus, I got the oil changed across the street while we were getting our nails did. Boom. Finish out the night with beating Scott at ping pong and some time together on the deck cuddled up in blankets and starting a new netflix series, Mankind, and talks on facetime with both Hannah and Joel.

Sunday I was able to go back to bed, a rare treat. Then Scott and I worked out at 9 rounds together. I made homemade pop tarts and we had a very good staff meeting at Brothers.