Lessons

Warning: this post is raw, real, philosophical, maybe even a bit preachy. Sorry, not sorry.

I have learned so much over the past two years. So, so many valuable lessons. I feel like I’ve been wandering in the wilderness like an Israelite, with the promised land just beyond reach. Maybe I’ve been wandering my whole life.

First. We can’t keep up the pace of life that this culture demands. I’ve blogged about this before. We have to stop, be still, listen, rest. School Social Work almost killed me. Literally. I just worked for the weekends.

Second. Its all temporary. Jobs, relationships, family members, churches, health, communities you are a part of, even mental health. It can all be stripped away in an instant. We put our hope, our confidence, our identities, our faith, in what we do, in who we think we are, in our feelings, in others. It shouldn’t take losing these things to have our eyes opened. It did for me.

Third. You don’ have it all figured out. If you think you do, you are wrong. Keep searching, keep growing, keep learning, keep leaning in.

Fourth. Growth hurts. Its a slow, painful process that can’t be rushed. When you think you’ve stripped away all, you haven’t. But there is hope on the other side, even along the way.

Fifth. God shows His grace and love through others. Others who come alongside you, accept you, love you even in your brokenness. You can’t put your faith in others, because humans can fail you, after all, they are humans. But you can let them love and support you, you can love and support them. They can speak truth to you, give you a glimpse into the love, acceptance, grace and wisdom that God has for you. Appreciate them and hold them dearly, spend time with them, love them well and intentionally, because they can be taken away.

Sixth. Be present. Look for His gifts all around you. Be grateful. Joy is found in the little things, that cup of coffee, the warm bed, sunshine, a hug.

Seventh. God is so very faithful. He is always there with you and always has been, even when you didn’t know it. You are never alone. He sees you and knows you. He accepts you and loves you. He forgives you and never gives up. He has good gifts for you. He has your best in mind. Always. Put your faith, your identity, your confidence, and your hope in Him, in Him alone. Not the fleeting things of this world.